'Touch me nots' fall within 'stone tops' as they refer to queer people, often transmasculine people or lesbians, who do not like to be touched during sex under any circumstances and instead only like to give. This can mean penetration, oral sex, or other acts and comes from the term 'stone butch' which was a common masculine gender expression in lesbian spaces in the 1970s, 80s, and 90s, and is still used today by some people within the community.

A 'stone top' refers to someone who only likes to 'give' during sex and not receive.